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10Oct

How to stop second guessing yourself as an SLP: SLP Stress Management Podcast Interview with Hallie Sherman

Posted by: Jessi Andricks Categories: Career Advice Stress Management
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One of the main reasons I decided to quit being an SLP (for nearly 5 years!) was because I didn’t feel like I was doing anything. I would go to work each day, but didn’t feel connected to what I was doing, didn’t feel like it was making a difference, and started to believe that being an SLP didn’t really mean much or do much. It was a TERRIBLE way to think and feel, and is absolutely untrue. SLPs make a huge difference in big and little ways, but at the time, it was difficult to see, until it was impossible.

Many SLPs that are stressed and nearing burnout can feel this way, or feel that they are heading in this direction. You might be familiar with this too.

It is often when you are a brand new SLP or starting in a new setting or with a new therapy protocol. You might feel like you aren’t sure what you are doing, or if it is effective, or if you are doing it “right”, and, then, you start second guessing yourself as an SLP. From there, it can be a quick trip to disconnect from your work and wondering if it was the right decision.

But it can also be a launching pad for bringing you to more connection and growth as an SLP. It can be the moment that helps you to figure out new ways to approach your work, connect with your students/clients/patients and feel that your work is truly meaningful (and sustainable).

How to recognize this moment, use it to reshape your mindset around your SLP work, and stop second guessing yourself as an SLP is what Hallie Sherman, from Speech Time Fun and the SLP Coffee Talk Podcast, shares in the this episode of the SLP Stress Management Podcast.

In her words “Hi! I am Hallie Sherman, M.S. CCC-SLP and I am a full time, school-based SLP from NY. I have experience working with students preschool through high school. I realized early on in my career that I had to find ways to make lesson planning easier so that I can leave work at work, spend more time with my children, yet still execute fun and engaging lessons that will help my students work towards their IEP goals. I am here to help you realize that you too can plan with ease and have your students always wondering what awesomeness you will present them each and every day! “

For even more ways to help you manage stress and ditch the second guessing that comes with it, check out the SLP Stress Management Self-Guided Course, now available!

This 8-week online course will help you to understand stress and where it comes from, learn evidence-based tools to better manage and reduce it, and create ways to implement these practices in your daily routines and schedule. You can find out more and sign up here: SLP Stress Management Course.

Much Love,

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16Dec

Meditation for SLP Holiday Stress

Posted by: Jessi Andricks Categories: Meditation Self Care
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Meditation for SLP Holiday Stress PinterestFeeling stressed about your break or the Holidays in general? Give this meditation a try to melt away the stress and bring some calm and peace back into your holiday season.

 

Want more meditations? Make sure to check out the Meditation and Audio library, and subscribe to the monthly newsletter for a free meditation practice straight to your inbox, as well as access to the SLP Toolbox, where you’ll find more meditation audios, journal templates and more.

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10Oct

How SLPs Can Combat the Sunday Blues

Posted by: Jessi Andricks Categories: Burn Out Reduce Stress Self Care
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The “Sunday Blues”. It’s a phrase that floats around many of the SLP fb groups, forums and pages. It is something we talk about with each other, but only if we are sure it is a “safe” place and others are probably feeling it to – otherwise we might be judged, seen as not good enough, or perhaps even told we aren’t cut out for the gig.

The “Sunday Blues” is a feeling that many SLPs get at the end of the weekend, right as they start to wind down and get into work mode again. Some feel it lurking throughout their weekend, ready to creep out at any moment. While others send their weekend feeling completely disconnected form the stress of work, only to have it hit them hard when they start to wind down the fun and turn their focus onto getting ready for the week ahead.

The Sunday Blues can hit any SLP, any day of the week, and it is usually a feeling, in the pit of your stomach, that starts to grow and grow until you get to bed, sometimes keeping you from sleeping at night and leaving you feeling exhausted come Monday morning. Just in time for a new week.

These feelings are a form of anxiety, that can build from a gnawing feeling in your belly to a full blown panic and anxiety attack. The first time you feel this, it can be alarming, because you may not know where or why it is happening. There are many SLPs you have started to feel this Sunday Blues feeling when they have seemed perfectly happy and content with their work.

The feeling usually starts to happen because there is an imbalance in your work and home life. It might not be something you are aware of, or it might seem like you aren’t doing anything different than the other professionals you know – taking work home for the evenings or weekend, prepping on the weekends, running errands all weekend, spending time with your family and friends, sleeping in late or staying up late, etc. All of these things can start to build, and can throw your life out of balance before you realize it.

The further anxiety and panic can come from something called “future-tripping”, where you keep looking ahead, to the impending week and all there is to do, which builds the stress around the week. These Sunday Blues can make the week ahead and the tasks that are involved seem much more stressful and time-consuming than they really will be. By looking too far ahead and thinking about “what could happen”, you start to create a build up of anxiety and stress that might not be needed.

To help combat the Sunday Blues, in both forms, there are a few things you can do:

  1. Make sure your weekends are replenishing you, and not depleting you more.
    1. If you are running errands, paying bills, chauffeuring kids around, etc, you are just doing more work (or a different kind) at home. Give yourself time to do something for you that isn’t a task or errand.
    2. Don’t bring work home. There will be times that you have to, but it should not be the norm. Leave work at work, and find time there to do paperwork, and consider, as hard as it is, to plan less so you have more time at work for other things.
  2. Create a Must-Do list for your weekend Self-Care (you can find one in the SLP Toolbox).
    1. 3 things that you will do (they can be small) to make sure you take time for yourself.
    2. Think of things like a cup of tea, read a book, go to yoga, take a walk, wake up 15 minute earlier than everyone else, etc.
  3. Prepare for the week, but only in small doses.
    1. Make sure you have clean clothes, food, etc, but you don’t have to spend your entire weekend doing chores and meal prepping.
    2. Have the basics ready, but also give yourself time to enjoy the weekend.
  4. If you start future-tripping, try a breathing and meditation practice to bring you back to the present moment.
    1. This will help you to bring yourself out of your head and into your body, in this moment, so you can take action (or rest) where needed.
    2. Try this video for more tips or this meditation.

If you are feeling the pressure of the week ahead, it doesn’t have to continue each week or get worse each day. Take some time to bring yourself out of the moment of stress, so you can take action, find more time for self-care, balance your work and weekend, and maybe take the next steps in your career life as needed.

If you are looking for more ways to reduce stress, here are a few other things to try:

You can also subscribe to the free “SLPToolbox” for even more resources and meditation practices.

Much Love,

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