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21May

How Yoga Helps Me Work on My Perfectionism

Posted by: Jessi Andricks Categories: Mindful Movement Perfectionism Stress Management
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Perfectionism is something that a LOT of SLPs deal with each day – sometimes as a result of being an SLP and going through the rigorous (often unrelenting) grad school process, and also, sometimes, it is what makes the field and training seem enticing. 

Perfectionism can seem like a great thing – always getting it done and doing it right, no room for nonsense or errors. It can seem powerful and strong, but it can also be really harmful. No mistakes allowed is not realistic. Constantly trying to do more and do better and do best is not sustainable. Always being strong and powerful, with no give and no flexibility, can cause you to break. Making an error or not knowing something leads to imposter syndrome and feeling like you are “not good enough”.

And all of these contribute to major stress, overwhelm and burnout.

I know, because I can relate and have dealt with this myself. 

My Mom recently told me, when I asked her what my biggest behavior challenge was growing up, “Nothing like that. We would just have to try to convince you to put down the [school] books and stop studying.”

Growing up, I was an overachiever without realizing it. I was really hard on myself for not getting the top scores on standardized tests, not winning the entire school spelling bee, not making it into the gifted program on the first try, or not being seen as cool enough by my peers. All of this and more before the age of 10. Ugh.

In later years, it became competitions with my best friend to see who could get the better grade or SAT score. And then, after a brief stint of having no expectations for myself in college, it kicked back up so I could get into my one choice of grad school. And when I got there, I realized, my perfectionism was not just an inner expectation, but an outer expectation from the school itself. But with juggling a LOT of life stuff at this point, my school work was not perfect (but it was absolutely great) and so I would forever feel the “not good enough”, “we expected more”, “ we thought you could do better” that followed me into my career as an SLP. 

And, unfortunately, after talking and working with 100s of SLPs about this, I know I am not alone. Perfectionism often drives us into our career choice, and serves us well early on, but it can also be the thing that leads straight into chronic stress, overwhelm, burnout and the feeling of not knowing, doing, or being good enough. 

yoga helps me work on my perfectionism

It took me a lot of time (5 years away from the field) to really work through this, and I still deal with it every day, at work and at home. I often have feelings of not being productive enough, not doing my share enough, and knowing I could have done more, if only. 

But there are also things that I know can help my work through my perfectionism, and my yoga practice has been #1 in helping me do this. Time after time, yoga helps me work on my perfectionism, among other things. I started practicing more and more as I went through grad school and into my career as an SLP, eventually training to teach yoga. When I feel stress and perfectionism creep in, it is my go to, and often something I had stopped doing in order to tighten up on being perfect in another area. 

My practice has been a true light for me. It started as a fun physical activity, and has become a foundation for how I live my life. 

Here are some (honest) ways yoga helps me work on my perfectionism:

  • My practice is rarely perfect
    • I’ve been teaching for 10 years, and practicing for about 5 more. But it does not mean it is always pretty or that every pose is perfect. In fact, a lot of the time the practice rarely is. 
    • I wobble. I fall. Some days I am strong and others I am weak. Somedays I am flexible and others I feel like I might snap. 
    • I have one pose I have been working on for almost 15 YEARS. And I finally feel like I am making some progress. That is a far cry from perfectionism and it feels damn good. 
  • It challenges me to try new things
    • I never would have tried some of the poses or stood on my head or known I could balance on my arms (sometimes) if my practice had never challenged me to do so. 
    • It helps me to jump into something that I may not be perfect at, to explore it as something new, and to know that, because it is new and a challenge, that it might take time (15 years or so) to achieve it – and then there is always more to do. 
  • It challenges me to grow and expand what I think I know – new ways of doing things
    • It is really easy to get stuck in thinking that my way of doing things is the best way (we all feel this way at times, sometimes pretty often). Yoga helps me see that there are a LOT of different ways to do something. YOu can do the same pose day after day and feel it differently or get to it a different way each time, and you end up with a totally different experience. You can go into a pose from so many different angles or poses and it changes it too. 
    • As a teacher, I get to see how each student and each class varies, and how things can work or backfire differently for each one. 
    • Yoga has helped me see there is no “perfect” way to do something, and that different approaches work at different times. 
  • Sit with the uncomfortable
    • Being perfect is often used to ward off any feelings and thoughts that are uncomfortable. If I (you) am (are) perfect, then there will be no bad feelings, no backlash, nothing uncomfortable to sit with. And of course, this backfires and creates a ton of uncomfortable feelings (like stress) and these continue to feed the control of perfectionism. 
    • Yoga helps me to sit with the uncomfortable, in my body and my thoughts. While taking a meditation, I sit with what shows up, which can sometimes be tension in my body or unkind thoughts. The practice teaches me to just breathe, sit with them, explore them, and remain less attached to them. 
    • During the physical practice, things are NOT always comfortable. But I am cued (by my teacher or myself) to stick with it, focus on breathing, and see what shows up, what shifts, and what I can learn from that discomfort (sharp shooting pains, always move out of the pose, FYI). 
  • There are days when I feel like I nailed it, and others when I think it went all wrong.
    • This is so true, especially for meditation. Some days I feel like I conquered the practice. I was perfect, went beyond what was asked and really enjoyed it. And other days I struggle with the basics, am asked to do something that I haven;t yet mastered (and am therefore far from perfect), or my mind wanders all the way through my guided meditation audio and I realized I heard nothing they dais beyond “take a seat”. 
    • These days are hard, but remind me that it is a practice. It is not meant to be perfect. And life is the same way. 
  • Some days are really, really, unpredictably difficult
    • After practicing, and doing physically demanding classes (and things like running), I expect (aha, perfectionism alert) that my class will be easy. But there are many, many times that a simple, basic class is unpredictably difficult. I feel tight, tired and stiff, my breath feels tuck instead of flowing, and my mind is anything but focused. 
    • It teaches me that, even with training and planning, things happen. Being human happens. Life happens. And we can either get mad at it, or go with it, learn from it and keep on moving. 
  • It is never ending and there is no “perfect”
    • Even with the poses that I have learned, or with a style I am familiar with, there is no perfect. It is a practice. It never ends. Once you learn a pose and can do it without difficulty, there are still ways to deepen, to do more and learn more and take it further. Forever and ever and ever. There is no real perfect, only the process. 

All of these things, and many more, I have grown and worked through with the help of my yoga practice. It remains, after many years, a constant (even when my practice looks very different over the years) in helping me work through perfectionism, and manage my stress and overwhelm overall. 

If you would like to try out a practice, to help you work through some perfectionism, make sure to sign up for the SLP Toolbox for FREE yoga practice audios. You can subscribe below. (Already a member? Click here to access).

You can also download the “Mindful Movement Weekly Planner” available in the SLP Stress Management Shop, to help you start your journey and see how it helps you when you are practicing regularly. The Planner includes a journal and printable planner pages (or use in a digital pdf app), guiding you through what types of yoga (mindful movement) you want to try and when. The planner part takes you through the week, from creating your plan, keeping track of what you are doing and when, and then reviewing how it went and what your next steps are.

It is now currently 50% off (along with the entire SLP Stress Management Shop) for Better Hearing and Speech Month.

Do you practice yoga? How has it helped you with perfectionism, or how do you imagine it might help you? Leave in the comments below!

Much Love, 

Jessi

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11May

4 Ways to Practice More Gratitude

Posted by: Jessi Andricks Categories: Gratitude Journal Techniques for SLPs Stress Management
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It can be really easy to find yourself stuck in the mindset of “everything is not working”, or some other variation of it, like “everything is the worst”, “nothing is going right”, “this all sucks”, “why can’t anything go well”. When you start to think this way, your brain kind of feeds on it – unintentionally – which is why it is SO HARD to pull yourself out of this type of funk or shift your mindset. And, since it is really hard to do, without an easy tool to grab and help out, you are likely to continue in this spiral and way of thinking, until you end up stressed out, overwhelmed and burned out. 

When I am stressed out, I notice that the first thing that goes is the acknowledgement of anything that is going well, and instead, my sole focus is on all that is not working, and looking for more things that fit that puzzle and continue to stress me out more. It’s unintentional and automatic, and happens so easily. 

Negativity, such as stress and these negative thoughts, is viewed as a threat by your brain. Your brain has a mission – to keep you safe and out of the way of potential threats, even the non-life-threatening ones, like paperwork, piles of more paperwork, changing policies, impossible schedules, unruly kids (your own and other people’s), annoying coworkers, demanding bosses, and being stuck at home for 24/7/365+. Your brain sees these as a threat and starts to stand guard, which causes you to spiral into stress and negativity, and automatically look for more of these things. It is no wonder those thoughts of “everything is the worst” dominate your brain space. It is an attempt to keep you safe that absolutely backfires. 

The key to pulling yourself out of these thoughts and this spiral into stress is to have an easy to use tool that will help you see all the other pieces of your day – the non-stressful, enjoyable, even good parts that your brain is overlooking, due to the calming, pleasing, peaceful, non-threatening nature of them. 

The way to do this is to practice positivity (not the toxic kind) via gratitude.

Gratitude helps you to shift your thoughts to the things in your day, no matter how small, that are going well. It could be something really big, or something small. Here are a few examples of gratitude:

  • You get to socially distance with your best friend after a year apart and air hug.
  • You get to video call your mom.
  • The person ahead of you pays for your coffee.
  • Your kid listens when you ask them to clean up.
  • You get a reply back from an email that you weren’t expecting. 
  • You have a cancellations (but still get paid) and now have 30 minutes to do something for yourself. 
  • Your coffee was hot when you drank it. 
  • You had a really yummy lunch.
  • The sun came out. 
  • It snowed. 

There are a lot of things that could qualify for this list, but your brain may overlook a lot of them, especially the small ones that make up most of your days, unless you train it to look that way through reflecting via gratitude practices. 

Since this type of thing is much easier said than done, it helps to have a few ways to get you into a routine of gratitude.

Here are 4 Ways to Practice More Gratitude:

  • Journal
    • A gratitude or positivity journal is a great way to train your brain to notice some good things that have happened in your day and life. You can do this by writing down at least 3 things that would be considered positive, went well, you are grateful for, you are thankful for, or that are “working” for you. 
    • These are the opposite of what your brain usually focuses on, so they might otherwise be overlooked. There is nothing too big or too small to put in your journal. 
    • You can leave it a bullet point list, or elaborate as much as you’d like. 
  • Meditation
    • You can also use gratitude in your meditation practice. Take a seat and get settled. Take a few deep breaths to begin. Then start to think of 3 things that you are grateful for. 
    • If you want to take it further, think of 3 things, then 3 moments from your day, and then 3 people. 
    • If you want, follow it up with a Gratitude Journal Practice.
  • Recall 3 Things
    • You can also verbally recall or state 3 things you are grateful for, rather than writing them down or thinking of them. This adds a little bit of accountability to the practice and solidifies it, making it more real, than just thinking it. 
    • Try finding a person (your partner, kids, friend, family, etc) that you can either say these to or, in a pinch, send a text or voicemail to. And in return, they can send you theirs. 
    • You can also do this around the dinner table, when you head to bed, or when you are getting your kids to bed. 
  • Mental Note
    • Another way to do this, if you want to start slow, or are a little hesitant to meditate, write or share aloud, is to simply make a mental note of your gratitude. 
    • You can do this throughout your day, anytime you need a reminder or have something you are grateful for. 
    • You can also do this right when you go to bed or wake up, or even at the start or end of the work day. 
    • Just think of the things you’re grateful for, make a mental note, and you are finished. 

For more gratitude practices, make sure to sign up below for the SLP Toolbox, where you’ll find gratitude meditations and journal templates, or purchase the “Gratitude Action Plan Guide” from the SLP Stress Management Shop.

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Now that you have a few strategies to start practicing gratitude, it’s your turn to put it into action! Leave a comment below sharing which strategy you are going to start implementing, or already use, in your day. 

Much Love, 

Jessi

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30Apr

Top 4 Fitness Apps for SLPs

Posted by: Jessi Andricks Categories: Mindful Movement Self Care Stress Management
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Top 4 Fitness Apps for SLPs

Stress can make you feel like both your body and brain are moving in slow motion. Your head is in a fog and you can’t think as clearly or swiftly as usual, and your body can feel sluggish, tired and overall lethargic. And both usually carry a bit of tension that builds right alongside the stress. 

One of the best things for reducing this stress and all that accompanies it, is also one of the most difficult things to do at times, and one of the things we tend to let go of when we are stressed – movement.

Moving is healthy for your body. You’ve probably been told to move by your doctor, coach or nutritionist and remember through the (dreaded) fitness tests back in elementary and middle school. Awful fitness test aside ( I failed nearly every year, but love to move now), movement is also great for reducing the tension you feel both mentally and physically from stress, as well as giving you a place to step away from stressful situations and reminders (aka your desk), and to drop in to your body and out of your head. It helps clear your mind, gives you back some focus, and builds up some energy. 

At least, when it is done mindfully and with a bit of enjoyment. The key is, actually doing it and finding easy ways to get started. 

Luckily, there are some really great apps and sites that can help you to get started moving more and reducing our stress, or to continue to build and vary your mindful movement practice. 

Here is why, in my opinion, these apps are these so great, especially for SLPs:

  • they are easy to use
  • not too expensive (In general. I know this depends on individual budgets)
  • have mindful movement practices for you to use
  • Are easy to access via app or bookmark

There are a lot more out there, even some that many of you suggested via an IG poll. Here is a list of the ones that I found to focus on mindful movement, some more reasonably priced (or come with a lot), and not affiliated with any particular gym or MLM (multi-level-marketing). 

*I have no affiliation with any of these, beyond my own personal experience, and of course, my own site (SLP Toolbox). 

Top 4 Fitness Apps (and sites) for SLPs:

  • Barre3
    • Main Reason:
      • Free Trial
      • Mindfulness is a priority
      • Movement blends multiple disciplines, as well as barre, to keep them creative and fun. 
    • What you get:
      • Mindful but challenging
      • A little more expensive (like paying for a studio), but has an in-person studio in many cities.
      • Also comes with recipes, lifestyle, monthly challenges, etc. 
  • EllenBarrett.com
    • Main Reason:
      • Free trial
      • Inexpensive and updated each month
      • Mindfulness is key
    • What you get:
      • Mindful movement in each workout
      • Fuses yoga, Pilates, barre, Tai Chi, walking, aerobics
      • New workout each month
      • Bonus videos some months
  • FitOn
    • Main Reason:
      • Free, but seems like you paid for it
    • What you get:
      • Tons of options
      • Tons of trainers
      • Lots of time lengths
  • YouTube
    • Main Reason:
      • It’s free, just with some ads at times
      • You can find so many things
      • Easy to access on your phone or tablet
    • What you get:
  • BONUS: SLP Toolbox: (My free resource library for SLPs)
    • Main Reason:
    • What You Get:
      • Mindful Movement and Meditation Audios, updated monthly

You can click on the names for each of these to head over and check them out. Sign up for access to a variety of Mindful Movement audios and more by clicking here: Free SLP Toolbox.

If you are looking to keep track of your mindful movement and create a game plan, make sure to check out the “Mindful Movement Weekly Planner” download/printable PDF, available in the SLP Stress Management Shop.

Do you have a favorite app or site you use? Share it in the comments below. 

Much Love, 

Jessi

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22Apr

How to Track Your Self-Care Practice

Posted by: Jessi Andricks Categories: Self Care Stress Management
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When I was in graduate school, I spent a lot of time (way too much, especially during class, I’ll admit) researching this newer movement about “going green”. I was fascinated by it and was so excited to learn more and revamp a lot of the things I was doing, eating, and cleaning with. It was my first time living alone and the first time I really went all in and had a strong opinion and stance on something. And I loved it. 

It became part of my lifestyle and something I wanted to bring into more aspects of my daily living and learning. 

  • There were TV shows devoted to green-living
  • Magazines and book being published
  • New products launching for cleaning (some obscure brands and some from household brands jumping in on the trend)
  • There were new ways of exercising (for me), that were more mindful
  • There were new grocery stores for me to explore and wander around
  • New products that were “eco-friendly” were popping up everywhere

Honestly, I really enjoyed this time and learning about so many new things, exploring and finding new products, and making shifts in my lifestyle. There were so many days and years where I felt like I talked about this a LOT and so much of what I was doing, thinking and reading was devoted to these “greener” practices. 

And then, one day, I felt like I had kind of lost it. I hadn’t explored a new store in awhile, found a new product to try, or been surprised to see a new product launched that I wanted to test out. I was a little dismayed and thought “I guess it’s not as important to me anymore”, and maybe, not to anyone else either. For a moment, I was really, really frustrated by that. 

How could I have gone so far in the opposite direction, to not be thinking about this ALL.THE.TIME. anymore. I mean, I dedicated a lot of my small, precious time in grad school (I also worked 5 days a week at a restaurant, serving and managing) to researching this, when I very well could have been studying a bit more (It’s ok. I got good grades and graduated. Just not “perfect”). 

And then I realized something:

  • I didn’t need lists of what foods to buy, because I had already learned it and the options were available pretty much everywhere I shopped.
  • I wasn’t exploring new stores, because I was frequenting the ones that worked best for me. And most places had a lot to offer.
  • Nope. I wasn’t testing out new products that popped up, because these were ABUNDANT and now widely available – not some obscure thing. 

Basically, I wasn’t constantly thinking about “going-green” anymore, because “going-green” was a lot more mainstream and it was a huge part of my daily life – without having to think about it constantly.

I had been practicing it for so long, that it was not just part of what I did automatically. It’s not nearly as fun as the exploring phase, but it is much deeper and more sustainable. It’s just part of life now. 

The same might be true for where you stand with your stress management and utilizing, learning, and exploring the tools and techniques, such as mindfulness, meditation, movement, journaling, and more. These things are more mainstream than ever, and could be viewed as trendy, or could be viewed as our culture finally catching up to what we all need, and realizing that not having these practices was creating more harm than good. 

Right now, you might feel immersed in it or even overwhelmed by it all. Or even feel that people are pushing it without actually offering help (like your boss or admin saying “remember self-care!”). There can be a lot to try, experiment with and to figure out what works for you and what doesn’t, and what really is just a trend. That can sometimes feel more stressful, or exciting, than you are looking for. 

But, one day, it will just be part of your routine – so much so, that you might not even realize you are using these on a daily basis. You’ll feel like you aren;t doing enough, or that you aren’t doing anything, because it is just part of who you are and how your day goes. Not stress-free, but more mindful and more aware, with tools to use when you need them and foundational practices built in. 

No matter where you are starting at now, here are a few things for you to reflect on, and see where you can go or how far you have already come: 

  • Awareness is the first step: If you are simply aware that you are feeling stressed or overwhelmed, and you can recognize the why or when, this is a huge step. 
  • Mindfulness is familiar vocabulary: The terms mindfulness, yoga, meditation, journal, self-care, stress management, etc are nothing new to you. You’ve been reading about them, listening to podcasts or courses on them, or trying them out. 
  • You’re stressed about your stress management: Yay! That can be hard, but it means you are working on it and on the right path (and, if you are feeling left out and alone, things like the SLP Stress Management Podcast or SLP Toolbox can help make it easier to figure out). 
  • Hearing about self-care from supervisor or admin makes you cringe, or cheer: Yay, again! Even if your reaction is an eyeroll, it means you know it is important, and are just overwhelmed at the thought of doing it. But you are still in that awareness place. 
  • You feel like you aren’t doing enough to try and look up new self-care routines, or you don’t talk about it as much or have it on your mind: It might make you feel guilty, or like you “aren’t doing enough” (imagine that, as an SLP, cue the sarcasm). It might mean that, if you are honestly avoiding facing your stress, but, most likely, if you have been working on this for a while, you are in it. You are doing things and incorporating them into your life without having to struggle or think about it constantly. It has been infused into your day and, even though stress might still be there, you are able to see it, see where you have stopped some of your practices, and get back into it with more ease and awareness. 

These might not feel like enough or like you have changed your world completely, but any small step or change can be a huge shift and can become part of your routine and day. Over time, these just become how you live your life. 

And being an SLP, it is quite possible that you will doubt how much you do, tell yourself it is not enough, and feel pushed to do more. It comes with the perfectionism we all face being in our field. 

If you are feeling this way, or you are in the beginning stages of creating some of these patterns, it can help to have some accountability, or to keep track of what you are doing. This gets it out of your head and onto paper (or a tablet), so you can really see what you are doing and living. And that it is always enough. Having a “Tracker” can help you not to be perfectly on track, but to see what you are already doing and how far you have really come. 

I use a daily tracker-style journal to help me, in a non-stressful or perfectionist way, see what habits I am doing, how I am really doing a lot more than I give myself credit for, and to see how these habits work (and when I stop doing them, how it shows up in my world). 

These can be found in journals or you can create your own, or you can use one of the “Self-Care Trackers” that I have available in my brand new digital product shop. These really are key to help you track your self-care practice

You can download the “Self-Care Tracker Journal” of your choice, available in the SLP Stress Management Shop, then get started with some stress management and self-care resources in the SLP Toolbox (for free).

  • Monthly Self-Care Tracker
    Printable and Digital PDF
  • Weekly Self-Care Tracker Journal
    Printable and Digital PDF
  • Self-Care Tracker Journal Bundle
    Printable and Digital PDF

They are available as Monthly, Weekly, or in a bundle with both. Each comes with a guided journal practice to help you get started figuring out your Self-Care practices that you are currently using or not, and what you would like to do, as well as two versions of each tracker page. These can be downloaded, printed out, or used in a digital pdf app. 

You can download the “Self-Care Tracker Journal” of your choice, available in the SLP Stress Management Shop, then get started with some stress management and self-care resources in the SLP Toolbox (for free).

You can also join the FREE SLP Toolbox, and get access to those Self-Care tools you’ll be tracking, by subscribing below.

How do you track your self-care practice? Share in the comments below!

Much Love,

Jessi

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1Apr

An SLPs Journey through Stress and Illness: Interview with SLP Leanna Vollintine

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Have you ever wondered if the mental stress you felt would ever shift to physical stress?

There are times when stress can really build up and, mentally, you know that it is really difficult. You feel tension in your thoughts, you feel drained and depleted, you might want to cry or scream, and you feel absolutely stuck. And then you just stick with it. Unfortunately, this sounds all too familiar for most SLPs who are working through stress. When it manifests mentally and emotionally, it can often feel like it is not “real” enough to deal with, that it is embarrassing, that it is not worth (and you are not worth) figuring out  – easier to power through and control more, and that it will just go away and be better soon.

FYI – these are all related back to perfectionism, which runs HUGE in our field.

And, these can really backfire. When the stress you are mentally feeling starts to stick around and grow, but is ignored or pushed aside for later, it can start to show up and manifest in other ways – affecting your relationships, your outlook, or even your physical health (I am, obviously, not a medical doctor. Please do not take this as medical advice). 

When I was in burnout, it was when things started to shift to affecting my life outside of work, my relationships, and even my physical health, that led me to really feel like I had to “escape” and leave the field. 

Recently, I had the chance to sit down, virtually, and chat with a fellow SLP, Leanna Vollintine of SpeechWorks Therapy, who has experienced this mental to physical stress firsthand, and is now sharing her story with other SLPs, in order to help spread the awareness of how stress can show up and affect your overall health and wellbeing.

In this episode we talk about:

  • Leanna’s journey with stress as an SLP
  • The different settings and jobs she tried to reduce stress
  • How it started to show up in her physical health
  • What she did, and does now, to help reduce stress and support her overall wellbeing

Here is a little more about Leanna:

Leanna Vollintine is a pediatric SLP who has been in the field for 17 years.  In 2016, she started her own private practice, where she serves children in counties west of the DFW area in Texas.  Her passion is helping those she serves to be the best communicators they can be, and helping their families be advocates for their children.  Her motto is “whatever it takes”.

Follow her on Instagram: @speechworkstherapy

Check out here TpT Store: SpeechWorks Therapy

You can tune in to our episode here or in your favorite podcast app:

If you are looking for even more ways to manage your stress, both physical and mental, make sure to check out the SLP Toolbox, a FREE resource library with everything you need to ditch the stress and overwhelm of being an SLP.

Get free downloadable meditation audios, movement audios, journal pages and more. Sign up below for access:

Much Love,

Jessi

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5Mar

Yoga as Magic, A Simple Anytime Flow: Mindful Movement for SLPs

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There are times when you just need a little break to get up and move around, especially after sitting for so long at your desk, or focusing really hard on something. Even when that work is enjoyable, it can create tension and brain fog. Getting up to move around, whether to take a walk outside or to stretch at your desk, can help you to feel refreshed, recharged, and refocused. 

One way that helps me, is to practice yoga. The combination of breath and movement, especially in a simple anytime flow-style class, for me, is a tiny bit magical. There have been a few times that I was incredibly stressed and felt like everything was falling apart (often related to work and feeling like I was in the wrong field or job or just wanted a little relief). My head was full of what-if’s, how can’s, and why this way, and my body felt tired and stiff. Once I made the decision (usually with some prompting from loved ones to get to a class), I immediately felt better, like a switch had been flipped and I was reset. 

  • There was the time I was crying over finally having a placement for the year (I had secretly hoped they wouldn’t have one, so I would have a real excuse not to go back), and I was contemplating over crawling into my bed at 3pm in the afternoon or going to my favorite yoga class. At the prompting of my loved one, I went to yoga. The teacher said everything I needed to hear (it was kismet), I cried. And I left feeling better, stronger, and ready to accept the position, even if I knew it wasn’t my forever goal (I left the field of SLP 6 months later). 
  • There was the time in more recent years where I had doubled my work hours and felt incredibly stressed and that burnout was creeping back in. I knew it was due to a lack of time for myself and some self-care. I was sitting far too much during the day and didn’t have enough creative time, nevermind time to move. Winter break was coming up and I was excited to have time (and some childcare for a bit) to head to a yoga class or two. But we all got the flu instead (hard) and I had one day before work started, and still had not gone to class. At the prompting of a family member who was visiting, I took time for myself and I went. And I felt an immediate weight lift off of me as I sweat, moved and breathed. It was my first yoga class in almost 2 years (motherhood, moving, new job), and it felt like coming home again. 

This feeling didn’t last forever, but each time it gave me a moment to breathe, to see a parting in the gray clouds that had taken over, and to feel that everything could be ok again, if I just took a  moment to breathe and move and tune in to what I really needed. It helped me see the magic of yoga again, and to feel empowered and more balanced for myself. 

Over the years, I have found that, when I am stressed about my job or life in general, yoga, especially a simple anytime flow type of practice, helps me to concentrate on something other than my work (this is also really helpful when I am having stressful or spiraling thoughts). When needed, it also helps to get back into my body, and less in my head, so my thoughts have a moment to pause and reset, and I can work out any tension that might be building from sitting to work all day. After yoga practice, I usually feel ready to get back to my work, at least for a little while. 

If you love yoga or are looking for a simple practice to help you when you are stressed, you can download a short, audio, 20 minute “Simple Anytime Flow” yoga practice in the SLP Toolbox, a FREE Resource Library full of tools to help you better manage and reduce your stress.

This “Simple Anytime Flow” is designed to help you connect your movement to your breath, so you can get out of your head, ease some tension, and find power within your body and mind. 

Sign up below to access this download and more.

What has your experience been with yoga? How has it helped you when you are stressed? Share in the comments below!

Much Love, 

Jessi

PS Have you checked out the SLP Stress Management Course? It’s an in-depth look at practical ways to manage and reduce your SLP Stress, and gives you the background into the stress you face, how and why it happens, and what will actually work to help it out (not looking at the brightside, ignoring the stress, complaining, wishful thinking, but real strategies that help your brain and body rewire the response to the inevitable stress you face.

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23Feb

How to Use an Anchored Breathing Meditation: Mindful Meditation Practice

Posted by: Jessi Andricks Categories: Meditation Stress Management
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One thing that will always be true, sometimes unfortunately so, is that stress and overwhelm will be a part of life. Even when you have tools to manage and reduce them, they will show up and you’ll have to put what you’ve learned into practice, or try to find a resource to help you better manage. It can be challenging (sometimes in a good, growth-filled way), and it can also be an opportunity to try out some new skills, or come back to some tried and true ones. For me, it is usually a reminder or indicator that I have stepped away from my routine and my daily habits or self-care, and that is when I know I need to come back to it, to feel better and work through whatever its going on or is off balance. 

When things start to get overwhelming and stressful, one thing you can do is to anchor yourself with your breath. It is a technique that is often used in mindfulness practices, such as meditation and yoga (more info here). 

This practice helps in a few different ways:

  • It drops you into the present moment, rather than spiraling about a past situation or future issue. 
  • It helps you to focus on one thing, rather than the multiple thoughts and “what-if’s” that overwhelm can bring in. 
  • It helps you to find more calm and turn down the stress response you are experiencing. 

Anchoring your breath is a simple practice of focusing on your breath, in a certain place on/in your body, to help you stay present and focused during a meditation (or yoga or even walking/running/cycling) practice. You pick a spot that you can feel or sense the breath, such as the tip of your nose or nostrils, or the ribcage or belly, and try to maintain your focus as you breathe and sit. Your mind will wander, and the practice helps you to have a specific place to come back to, and focus again, when you notice your thoughts have wandered. 

Here are a few ways to use an “Anchored Breathing” Meditation Practice:

  • Self-Guided Meditation:
    • To do this practice, take a seat, close your eyes and start to pay attention to the breath in a specific spot. 
    • Stay there for about 5 minutes, or go for longer (I like to set a timer if I am doing a solo meditation). 
  • Yoga and Movement:
    • You can also try this during a yoga practice – taking the given pose or shape and then anchor into your breath as you hold or flow through. 
    • You could try this while running, walking, cycling, etc. Find a place to notice and anchor your breath, and then keep that your focus as you move. 
  • Guided Meditation Audio:
    • Sometimes you need some guidance and support to practice. You can always use a guided meditation practice, like the one(s) in the SLP Toolbox or on meditation apps.

Next time you are looking for a tool to help with the stress and overwhelm you are feeling, try an “Anchored Breathing” meditation or mindfulness practice. 

To download an audio version of this, make sure to sign up for the FREE resource library, the SLP Toolbox. You’ll find this meditation practice, plus many more and other resources, to help you better manage and reduce the stress you face as an SLP (and human!). You can sign up below for access:

How do you like to anchor your breath? Nostrils, belly, ribcage? Leave in the comments below!

Much Love, 

Jessi

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29Dec

5 Moves to Practice Barre Anywhere: Mindful Movement for SLPs

Posted by: Jessi Andricks Categories: Mindful Movement Stress Management Uncategorized
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When you are stressed out, as an SLP or just as a human, it is easy to start to let go of the things that actually help reduce and manage your stress. You might find that you:

  • sleep less and work later (or earlier)
  • grab convenient and/or comfort foods
  • stay stationary to work instead of moving around
  • skip exercise in order to save time
  • no quiet, reflective time or meditation, instead continuing to push and do more

The things that help you (and your brain) to process, take a break from, and let go of stress are usually the things that seem ore negotiable when you are feeling overwhelmed and short on time. In the short term, this seems like the best idea, it gives you more time to get done the things that are stressing you out and are taking over. In the long run though, this only allows the stress to build up more, your stress response to stay fired up, and for you to continue doing more and more of the things that are stressful It also allows the stressors to affect you more deeply, instead of building up a resilience and having strategies that reduce the stress.

It helps to work with someone or join a program or listen to a course of podcast that can help you make a plan to start doing these things again and using them, even when you are stressed. This can be a way to help you figure out what strategies you currently are using, which ones you are letting go of, and what might work better for your long tern ad short term goals and lifestyle.

These typically include things like movement, meditation, creating more sustainable and nourishing routines, and taking care of yourself throughout the day with better food, quiet moments, and time to move mindfully.

Movement is a great way to help manage your stress, and is often one of the easier things to include or come back to when you have been stressed. You can feel the benefits right away, it helps you to step away from the stress, and helps you to get out of your head and into your body. Plus you might already have a routine to fall back on, a gym membership (hopefully with online offerings), or some streaming services.

One of my favorite workouts, since I can sneak it in with minimal equipment, space and time, (and not a lot of sweat) is a barre workout. The smaller moves really pack in big results, you maintain a mental focus on your body during the workout, and you don’t need much space, so you can do it pretty much anywhere. For years, this has been one of my go-to workout styles to teach and take (along with yoga and getting outside).

Here are a few moves to help you practice Barre anywhere, anytime:

  • Wide Plie
    • Stand with feet wide, toes and knees turned out. Inhale as you reach your arms overhead, exhale as you sweep the arms down and bend your knees. Repeat 10 times.
  • Narrow Plie
    • Stand with your heels together, toes and knees turned out. You can bring hands to your hips or reach your arms out to the sides. Bend your knees as you exhale (it’s a small move) and inhale as you straighten the legs. Repeat 10 times.
  • Single Leg Reach Back
    • From your Narrow Plie, sweep your right leg to the back corner, flexing your foot. Your hand can stay on your hips. Engage the core as you slowly lift your leg up and then tap it down. Repeat 10 time and switch sides.
  • Knee to shoulder
    • Reach the right leg back again and hold on to a chair if needed for balance. Point the toe this time as you lift your leg and hold it up. Bend your knee, so your leg aims towards your shoulder/elbow/side, then lengthen. Repeat 10 times and switch sides.
  • Narrow Plie Reach Across
    • In your Narrow Plie stance. bend into your knees (you have the option of lifting your heels slightly, but keeping them pressed together). Start with your hands on hips or on a chair. Slowly reach your right arm across to the left corner, twisting through the core but keeping the legs still. Then switch, reaching the left arm to the right corner. Repeat 10 times on each side.

You can find an audio for these barre moves (and more) in the “Barre Anywhere” practice, a flowing barre movement audio, available for free in the SLP Toolbox.

The SLP Toolbox is a free resource library, full of practical tools to help SLPs manage and reduce their stress. It is updated monthly with meditation audios, movement audio practices, as well as an archive of journal templates, self-care checklists and more.

Not a member? You can access the library (for subscribers only) by signing up below:

Looking for more ways to manage your SLP Stress? Make sure to check out the following:

Much Love,

Jessi

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